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"The Loser" has no interest in your opinion or your feelings – but they will be disturbed and upset that you dare question their behavior.
"The Loser" is extremely hostile toward criticism and often reacts with anger or rage when their behavior is questioned.
He has told her if they get married, we are not invited!
He has also told us there is no way to reconcile things until after they’re married — and that will take at least a couple of years.
Carver warns of the need to identify not just losers but "controlling, abusive, and manipulating individuals".
By his reckoning, it's imperative we decipher whether or not we're dating a loser as early as possible as these types will inevitably "create damage to you". * Rough Treatment: Physical violence from either men or women. * Quick Attachment: If they tell you way too quickly that they love and want to marry you, warning bells should start to ring. "Healthy individuals will wait for a lot of information before offering a commitment - not three weeks." * Temper: Blowing up over little things is another form of gaining control.
I've been contacted for help by the friends and loved ones of people involved in relationships with Losers (controlling and/or abusive partners).Y"The Loser" blames you for their anger as well as any other behavior that is incorrect."The Loser" never, repeat "never", takes personal responsibility for their behavior – it’s always the fault of someone else.My personal journey in understanding and learning about personality disorders and the toxic affects this has on people’s relationships and their children.I hope by sharing my site with others that they too can learn and heal from having a person or persons in their life that are dysfunctional and have cause them so much emotional pain and suffering.